Well i started to date for the first time in a long time. The kicker is it's no longer a fling,'benefits' thing i have actually decided to stop the side show and going to the main stage. I even asked him out We meet in a MMORPG,(massive multi player online role playing game) RTCW2 (return to castle wolfenstein 2) WE have "known" each other for a year. Then just this past January we started to actually talk together on TS (team speak) while gaming I noticed he showed some interest in me so I took a wild jump and sent him a note and in April he came out to meet me in person and it was beautiful,amazing,pure fireworks!!The other kicker is he lives in California and i'm in Texas. but I think it will work out because we are making it work.